What a big month for me!  I’ve been working hard to get a better body since I fell ill this past summer and had excellent motivation since I was trying to prepare to run a 5K on behalf of EA SPORTS Active here in Charlotte, NC.

I ran the Dowd YMCA 5K Walk/Run & Half Marathon on November 7th, 2009, and it was the perfect day.  The sun was shining, the temperature perfect and the crowd was alive and energetic.

At 8:00AM, everyone took off.  People were running, jogging and walking.  I did a little of both.  I signed myself up for the run/walk option, because with all my practicing, I realized just how out of shape I am and how little endurance I had in me!

I completed the 5K in what seemed like no time, considering the build up to it was huge for me and I expected it would be something that took all day.

After the race, I had to go home and pack for California.  That’s right!  I was headed to California to be a part of a commercial shoot for EA SPORTS Active!  The segments I filmed may not necessarily end up in the commercial, but it was super exciting to be on the set and to see how commercials are made.

From this point on, I’m going to give actors WAY more credit.  I stood under those hot lights for hours on end, having to be cautious of my posture, clothing and look the entire day.  You can see the entire album of pictures I’ve collected so far on my EA SPORTS Active Facebook Fan Page but my all time favorite picture taken of me is when I actually had a break in the morning.  It couldn’t have captured me any better-

Cell phone open, laptop on and a smile on my face.  No matter where you find me, you’ll most likely find me in that position.  I met some wonderful people and got special star treatment while I was there!

To complete my week of 5K’s and commercial shoots, I came home to find EA SPORTS Active More Workouts waiting for me!  I tore into the package and immediately turned my Wii on.  This product is AMAZING!

I have a lot of people talk to me about virtual fitness and what their goals are.  I can say in all honesty that I’ve never seen a product like this one.  If you’re looking to burn calories and get a fitness routine that will tone, shape and sculpt your body quickly, you can’t do better than EA SPORTS Active More Workouts.  No joke. (more…)

With the Holiday season fast approaching, everyone is thinking about friends, family and giving thanks to the ones they love.  I was recently thinking about the best gift that I’ve given or received and I realized I was lucky enough to have both happen to me at once.

I was raised to appreciate great music, with one band emphasized in particular – The Eagles.  My father is a brilliant man, and there is no doubt that The Eagles are by far his favorite band, so therefore they’re also mine.

Years back, we were on vacation in Massachusetts, I remember standing out on the balcony, gazing at the mountains feeling a sense of peace.  My father was playing “Life’s Been Good” by Joe Walsh and I looked at him and said that one day, we’d see The Eagles in concert.  His reply?  “When hell freezes over”.

The Eagles have always been a West Coast band, so my Dad just never got the chance to see them before they broke up.  There was a trend starting in the 90’s though, and bands were reuniting, bringing Classic Rock to the forefront once again.

Years after my Dad and I had that conversation, The Eagles were one of those bands.  They came together and created a fantastic new CD, still available online and in stores like Target.  Unfortunately, my father wasn’t feeling well so was in the hospital for a little while.

One day, when I was working my very first job at the cookie place in the mall, my then boyfriend Casey came for a visit (he loved free cookies).  I knew he and I had plans to see Pink Floyd, so when he showed up and handed me an envelope with tickets, I naturally assumed that’s what they were.

Opening the envelope to check out our seats, I saw they weren’t the tickets I expected.  Inside, there were two tickets to the recently announced Eagles Reunion Tour created to promote their CD.  I looked at him, looked back down in the envelope and fainted.  Passed right out.  Hit my head, in fact.

The best part about that gift was that there were two tickets inside.  One for me and one for my father.  Casey knew how much this would mean to us, and he wanted it to be something we enjoyed together.  I immediately went  to my father, who was still a bit out of it in the hospital and told him the news.  His reply? “When hell freezes over.”

Straight up until the day of the concert, he refused to believe it could be true.  It was being held at an amusement park and at one point on the Giant Ferris wheel, shortly before the concert was supposed to begin, he was convinced the wheel would come undone and crush the stage.

It wasn’t until the band actually started to play that it seemed to set in that we were there. The name of that tour?  “Hell Freezes Over”! It was glorious.  It was perfection.  During “Desperado”, I stood on the chair behind my daddy with my arms around his neck and we cried.  Of all the gifts I have ever been given, it was so nice to give to my father and enjoy it with him in return.

At the end of the show, Dad and I went running out into the crowd.  Spotting Casey waiting outside, both my dad and I about jumped into his arms in thanks.

Target and I are curious to hear about what’s the best gift is  that you’ve given or received?.   All who answer the question on the Happy Holiday Help on DivineCaroline will be entered for a chance to win a $500 Target Gift Card!

I, of course, will be reading your comments on DivineCaroline’s website to hear your stories, but I’d also like to give my wonderful readers the opportunity to win a $50 gift card from Target right here on my site!  To enter to win, leave a comment on this post telling me about what you give thanks for this Holiday season.  For more chances to enter and win, leave one comment for each action taken from the entry options below.  Each comment left counts as one entry and the winner will be chosen from a random comment left using Random.org.  Contest ends Thursday, December 3, 2009 at 6:30 PM EST.  Winner will be notified on this site and by email within 48 hours. For a full complete of rules, read this. Good luck!

Here Are Some Ways To Enter!

• Leave a comment on this post telling me about what you give thanks for this Holiday season.
• Blog about this wonderful contest, linking to this post (http://bit.ly/4517rj) and leave the link to your post in a comment on my site.
• Blog about the Happy Holiday Help question on DivineCaroline to give your readers the chance to win a $500 Target Gift Card, using THIS LINK (http://bit.ly/1V8TTK) and then leave a comment here with your link to your blog post.
• Tweet about my giveaway ((http://bit.ly/4517rj) on this site and let me know in a separate comment on this post.
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• Post a Facebook update about my giveaway (http://bit.ly/4517rj) and let me know in a separate comment on this post.
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• Subscribe to Momspective via Email or RSS (get an entry for each if left in two comments)
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I’ve added the shortened URL’s to the links I’d like you to refer to in your posts to make it a little easier on everyone, those are the URL’s I’ve linked to in each entry chance to win.  These are just ways for you to enter, they are by no means mandatory, I’m just giving everyone every extra chance to win!  Good luck!

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I seem to have a pent up rage and/or aggression I can’t get rid of.  I need to go into one of those all glass stores that let you just smash shit all over the place.  That would really help.  I’d like to smash some glass.

I often find I hope my breath for absolutely no reason.  I usually don’t even notice I’m doing it until I feel like I can’t breathe.

I’ve been asked to bring a ham, scalloped potatoes and chocolate chip cookies to the big neighborhood Thanksgiving feast.  Now if I can only figure out how to cook a ham.

Fucking Facebook.  Shit.  I can’t stop playing that Social Interview App.  I LOVE filling shit out, especially shit about myself.  Now my Facebook page is littered with random questions I’ve answered about myself.  I’m a spaz for keeping clean lines and shit and now it’s just plastered with this app.

Speaking of Facebook, I am UBER pissed at the Networked Blogs App. I didn’t realize that when you click to read someone’s post, it has a Facebook toolbar thingy at the top of it and will pop an ad up if you don’t close that bar. I also hate how it doesn’t open the blog in a new window, because it takes the reader away from Facebook. I might find another way to broadcast my shit. (more…)

Oh.  My. Gawd.

AAHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT THE FUCK!?

What is WRONG with me!?!?!

SHIT!

*breathe*

Okay.  I feel better.

NO I EFFING DON’T.

Yes I do.

That is how I’ve been starting out most of my Monday and/or Tuesday mornings for the past ten weeks.  As commissioner of the various Momspective Fantasy Football Training leagues and as a player in my neighborhood (all male, except for me) league, I have a wide variety of feelings I need to work through each week.  Fantasy Football makes you FEEL.  It might be one of the only things on God’s great earth that cause men to have any emotion of any kind.  Football can make a man slap another man’s ass or punch that man in the face, all in the same hour.

The league I pay most attention to is my Spicewood neighborhood league, simply because I had to pay to get in it and there’s a good amount of cash to split up for the winners.   What bothers me about this league is that I was in Chicago when the live auction draft took place, so I trusted my husband to handle my draft.  That’s really unfair to us both, because he had to pick his own team and try to make a balanced team for me lest I think he drafted my shit team on purpose and set himself up for a quickie divorce. (more…)